How can I make this man fall for me?

Ok I went on a date with him about three weeks ago (it was a blind date). We got on brilliantly, like we'd known each other forever. There was no awkwardness or anything. I didn't fancy him physically immediately but felt very desirable for him. We kissed and then the next day, well, evening, he called and asked to see me again. So we went to a bar and then back to his for a takeaway. Anyway, long story short, I have fallen for him in a major way. I'm 27 and have never felt like this in my life. Ever. I feel as if im going to go insane through thinking about him. I'm as miserable as a wet Monday morning when I'm not with him and pray that the hours fly by till I can next see him again. I'm fascinated by this man, I think he is perfect. I just want to be near him all the time and I feel like I want to be a better person for him. The best version of me that I can be. Am I in Love? After three weeks?





Anyway we haven't established what we are yet. But we have talked about going away for a weekend... and he's said that he wants me to meet his friends (he's 32).





The point is I'm constantly worried that he's going to go off me, or decide I'm not right for him and the thought of not having him in my life is terrifying. What can I do to keep him interested? I've spoke about this to a few people and they all say play hard to get and don't be too available. I've been doing this and it's killing me! I'm dyyyying to text him a few times a day but I'm not. I simply wait till he texts me.





Is this the right way to go?





Ahhhh help! A mans perspective would be great. Do men really love to chase girls and find girls too available needy and off-putting?





Thanks,





Emma.How can I make this man fall for me?
Hello Emma





From the sounds of it he's interested in you big style, If he wants his friends to meet you hes planing on making you a big part of his life, Men only allow friends to meet possible girlfriends/partners, we don't introduce flings or one night stands. Try to calm down a bit. you have to take your time, playing the long odds is always better than going for broke. at least with the long odds you get to really know him, who knows, you may find something out about him down the line that wasn't what you thought or wanted. resist the urge to multi text him, we hate that as the texts come through when we really don't want them to %26amp; that scores you bad points,





In short live your life as you normally would, if you appear too needy %26amp; he will bolt, of that Im sure.


Invite him round for a home cooked meal %26amp; a bottle or two of wine, Men open up more when we have had a glass or two, Let nature take its course, if its meant to be it's meant to be.





Good luck Emma, you sound like a lovely lass %26amp; i hope it works out for you.





TezHow can I make this man fall for me?
I didnt read the full story but you cant make a man 'fall for you' , do something amazing, be amazing. play hard to get. if that dont work then hes just not into you?
im not a man but i think if u play hard to get he will get fed up, go with him wen u feel like it and dont be too needy and dont show all ur feelings for him at any stage till ur established in a relationship :)
You can't . He either likes you or he doesn't. He has a mind and a will of his own.
I think playing hard to get is being a bit childish and may well put him off. Obviously you don't want to be too clingly or come on too strong but texting him a few times a day seems fine to me. As long as you wait for him to text back before you text him again! Just calm down and stop worrying. Worrying is the most pointless thing to can do and if you keep focusing on him gettting tired of you then it has more of a chance of happening, as well as driving you crazy!