How do i get over the married young man i had an affair with?

It is over, lasted only a few months. I have a lot of friends and lots of guy friends (just friends) This was completely out of character, i would have NEVER thought I would do it but it happened the smack of love hit me in the face and I couldn't gain my footing. I've never been so in love with someone (and felt it back) and I do everything to kick the feeling out. I guess the problem is, is that we have become best friends. He is a beautiful being and it was terribly hard on both our souls, so we have worked hard in ending it and really only see each other in groups,but still talk on the phone about 4times a week. I am just hoping someone can help with advise. It's physically over, I just want to kick him out of my head and still keep him in my life. I have no lack of friends, I think that is what made it harder, that with all these people i know he was the spark, and still is so vibrant. He married real young. Which is no excuse. I don't think either of us saw this connection coming. It hit by surprise. We both work really hard to reach our goals on a daily basis and motivate each other just by being ourselves, I don't want to lose that. Is it possible? Should I date? that seems like a waste for a girl like me...I am married to my career goal, and I don't see dating as organic, boys think i play hard to get...ha I'm just not interested in well almost all of them, and I've never been one for sleeping around, It doesn't interest me. Help!?! Can anyone at least relate?How do i get over the married young man i had an affair with?
That last answer is just a bit harsh. You cant help who you like and with time you will get over him. For your own sake you will have to give him an ultimatum 'all or nothing' because it could be seen that hes stringing you along, even without meaning to. You neve know he miht suprise you as ur affair was more than just sexual and he probably realises this. I hope it works out for you.How do i get over the married young man i had an affair with?
YES ITS CALLED DELETE HIS NUMBER FROM YOUR PHONE!!!! STOP TALKING TO HIM ALTOGETHER AND STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM!!!! Hello he is married You stupid Girl! What would you do if the roles were reversed and you were being cheated on. Your totally going to HE*L %26amp; he will be there with you so you can see him there. If you were smart you would move to another state so you don't get tempted to fuc* up his relationship more then you prob already have!