Played Hard To Get, He Felt Pushed Away- Said It Was A Turn Off?

So apparently men don't like a challange anymore? or hes not a man? or he lacks self worth?





Im in love with him and now hes distanced himself and I dont know how to bring him back!





Can someone please be kind enough to help? Do not be mean to me I am in enough pain and regret.Played Hard To Get, He Felt Pushed Away- Said It Was A Turn Off?
Maybe just try and talk to him about this. I'm sure if he likes you, he will understand what you were doing and give you a chance. best of luck to youPlayed Hard To Get, He Felt Pushed Away- Said It Was A Turn Off?
Everyone is different and you happened to push the wrong buttons. Hard to judge how anyone will take things. Beat I can say is talk to him.Men are not all alike.
Very simple, walk up to him and tell him you were just trying


to get his attn, now you realize was a stupid thing to and you


are very sorry that it happen and that you love him.


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Now...put your pride up you a$$, and learn your lesson


and behave like a human being instead of a c**nt
if you love him then you shouldn't have played hard to get with him. yeah it says to play hard to get, and it can be a turn on to them but not to keep doing it. you do it for a few days or such but not a lot. think of it this way if you were talking to a guy and he was talking to you and liked you but kept playing hard to get wouldn't you get confused? i mean come on really.
Maybe he doesnt like these little mind games. I know I don't.. It's annoying, unnecessary, and really childish once you think about it. Just tell him that you'll stop playing hard to get and to give you a second chance
Well my first question is, how long have you been together? If you've played hard to get from the start then my advice is drop the act ASAP and just be yourself. Show him that you're fun to be around and not just playing with his heart.





If you are both comfortable with each other, then sit down and talk to each other. Let him know that you just wanted to keep him keen, and tell him how you really feel.





Through experience, I found that most men like sweet girls who are bright, cheerful and friendly. He is probably low in self-confidence, and when you played hard to get, it may have seemed to him that he isn't good enough for you.


Hope this helped in any way XD
We don't like to play games.





If you play hard to get, we might just give up and you won't get got.
then apologize. tell him it was supposed to get him to like you, and try starting over. good luckk :)
Arggh... the amount of people who think that playing hard to get works... really it will only work on certain types of people and those are the kind that just like playing around and probably don't want a serious relationship.
Ayt meee, there is a huge difference between playing hard to get and just being chilled. Im guessing you were just being difficult and brushing him off or sumn like that when in actual fact you were supposed to chilled and cool about the whole situation, talking to him occasionally and not too laid back though. Right now you cant expect to have him wrapped around your finger so easily. You'll have to take small steps and do small things that show that you are into him like increasing body contact, being a bit flirtatious, showing a bit of skin here and there and talkin to him more often. Its really not that hard to be thoughtful...
oh come now bitches, you should have learned by now that men hate the chase. Stop playin with men and love them if you love them, the fact that he rejected your playing hard to get either means he's a player or has a pair of balls, which means he's a keeper both ways. I'm not saying stay with a cheater but self-confidence or sexual experience is something the wimps of today lack seriously.





Guys think the Chase is cute when you are PLAYFULLY, laying on the bed and are refusing 2nd base.


';Ahh come on, we've been dating for a month';





';well stud, you'll have to take your shirt off for me first.';


rub up on his chest and then he does the same.





NOW THAT IS ROMANCE. Turning him down and pushing him away is completely retarded so this be a message to all you, just have fun, don't try to deny your partner anything unless you are fairly uncomfortable, and don't ever deny him the chance to be with you, if you actually like him at all. Don't play with men, if they actually have balls they will drop you in a heartbeat. STOP PLAYIN' WITH US BITCHES!!