Friday, August 20, 2010

I have a question for people who have had friends with benefits?

i have a friend with benefit and we had been talking for almost a year and recently just did it..i liked it but don't know if he did how can you tell if a guy likes the sex? also how can i act towards him that way i leave him wanting more and not thinking i want him for anything else? i would like to continue but i don't know how to make him want more without being obvious or what can i do so not to crowd him..for men what kind of woman with benefits would you like? how can i play hard to get coz i know men want what they can't have..I have a question for people who have had friends with benefits?
You need to have a talk with him. Ask him if he enjoyed it. Tell him you want more sex, but you want to remain friends. Do not play hard to get, as you're more likely to get him to fall in love with you than to get him to just want to get laid.





Friends-with-benefits, as with ANY ';advanced'; sexual activity requires you to have wide-open lines of communication. **It will not work** if you start playing games the way you are wanting to do. You MUST be able to, and actually do, have open and frank communication with him about what you want, where the boundaries are, and how satisfied you are with what is going on. That way each of you knows how the other is feeling.





This is very basic ';Safe-Advanced-Relationship'; stuff. If you are going to engage in anything beyond the traditional relationship structure, you MUST do it this way, the same way you have to practice safe sex when you get him in bed. Anything else is a recipe for emotional disaster.I have a question for people who have had friends with benefits?
the friend (with benefits) i had talked to me and we decided that this is what we would do


if he is a friend, just tell him how you feel...tell him that you liked it and want more, no strings, of course
Well I've had a friend with benefits before and it's all just for fun, it's all just sex! So just plainly tell him what you want. Tell him you liked it and want more! it's not like you want to date him! It's all sex, he will probably just agree to it because its sex, guys love it! lol. hope this helps ya!
If you're trying to make him want more from you, more than likely you're just wasting your time. Guys who have friends with benefits usually don't want them as anything else, because if he did he would have acted upon it by now.
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