What are some psychological ways of attracting men aside from physical traits?

Some examples I can think of are





a) Arousing his competitive instinct


b) Giving him an opportunity to protect you?


c) Allowing him to feel dominant?


d) Being honest?


e) Having a wild, and exotic nature?


f) Being mysterious?


g) Commanding respect?


h) Being clean, and tidy


i) Being pure


j) Avoiding confrontation and conflict


k) Having a tremondous amount of self-respect


l) Letting your relationship with him or friendship with him be conditional at all times based on how he acts and how he treats you


m) Playing hard to get


n) Being a good listener


o) Being sober about every circumstance that suits you


p) Having an analytical mind and broadcasting your opinions to others, when they have a high degree of complexity or intellectual value


q) Dressing in a formal way


r) Being quiet and not talking very much


m) Being modest


n) Putting yourself in his shoes at all times


o) Forgiving mistakes with grace and dignity


p) Refusing to believe lies


q) Having attentive eyes that are inquisitive, and deep


r) Being conservative and not discussing anythign personal for a long period of timeWhat are some psychological ways of attracting men aside from physical traits?
1) be confident. Command his attention.


2) don't be clingy/needy.


3) dont depend on him. Play it cool. But don't blow him off 24/7. If he asks you out, say ';damn I'm busy that day! How about (insert day here) instead?'; (see number 4)


4) don't be overly avalible. Show him you have a life outside of him.


5) use body language. Mirror his actions. If a person likes someone they automatically mirror their body language.


6) flirt. A LOT. But...


7) be casual. Make jokes. Don't get too heavy.


8) highlight your good points (ie if you have nice eyes play them up)


9) don't brag. Get friends to brag for you. This makes you look great and modest.


10) be yourself. If he dosent like it then screw him.What are some psychological ways of attracting men aside from physical traits?
I've read in articles that b, and n are important. But as are many things besides those two.
Holy! After reading your list, I feel like you just gave me some answers. I can tell you some things not to do:





1. Don't discuss your past sex life or brag about what you've done because it makes you seem easy.


2. Don't act like a ditz because they will never take you seriously.


3. Don't act like the damsel in distress. The movies lie. If a man is looking for a seriously relationship, he is looking for a partner and not some little girl who has difficulty opening a pop can.


4. Don't act like you need a man. If you show you are happy in life even when you're single, it shows you don't define yourself by who you're dating. An independent woman is a happy woman.


5. You're right about being mysterious. Part of that is dressing classy. Some slight cleavage is alright, but if you have a skimpy skirt, there's no mystery left.


6. Don't blog about every aspect of your relationship, because it shows you can't keep a secret.





Playing hard to get is the oldest trick in the book. But some girls take it as being the biggest snob, which isn't it. Just by acting hesitant when he asks you out shows you're not the type of girl to just hop in the sack. Men love challenges so you have to keep that going by not putting out right away (or ever).





There's a lot more, but I'm late for work. Hope this helps.