Whats up with playing hard to get??? HELP???

So I like this girl ALOT. she tells me she likes me and we go places but I think she plays hard to get. Like, she tells me sometimes that she would rather have me as a friend forever then to lose me over a breakup and shes scared i would never talk to her again. so I say, ';Okay, fine, lets just be friends.';..Then she has these moments where she calls me up late at night and tells me,'; Oh, im just thinking how it would be if you were my boyfriend'; and she gets super flirty and tells me I always make her smile and she wants me to blow her kisses over the phone. Then, she makes herself distant. Pretending like the conversation never happened. Then it starts all over again. So i said, ';screw it';. I didnt call her or talk to her for a couple days and then she sends me txt messages saying ';I MISS U'; and what not. WTF man!! This is getting rediculous. I dont think my heart can take this anymore because I really do like this girl. I feal like shes just messin' with me. what do I do. Im so confused! =(Whats up with playing hard to get??? HELP???
Ok first off shes a woman we are like that. We cant make up our minds...and when we finally do we will be walking down the aisle in a wedding dress.





This girl does like you,however based on what you said she may be a tad immature....unsure of herself...or maybe her mom doesnt approve of you.





heres what you need to tell her.





Tell her you like her as a girlfriend,BUT if she doesnt want to be your girlfriend then tell her ';why dont we just go on dates';


you can go on a date with someone without being their bf/gf


You need to let her know how you feel....if she feels the same way then try to persuade her to date you.





BUT if she only likes you as a friend....DONT forget her,ignore her,or stop liking her.


sometimes women like to be reassured that their men actually really do like them. stay with her awhile show her you can be her friend..who know she may come around.





good luck!!Whats up with playing hard to get??? HELP???
IMO, you need to value yourself more. Set your boundaries, (no late,late phone calls in middle of night) etc. Don't let her play with your emotions. You're not an amusement park. On the phone, speak with her 10 minutes, then politely get off the phone and hang up. Be nice but be firm... sometimes you have to make ppl. respect you. If they don't, move on without them.
Don't be confused. Playing hard to get is just that: playing. She's playing games. People who want honest, sincere relationships do not play mind games with others. Find someone who is for real.
ask her to be your girlfriend, probably what she wants, but say youll never break up, and if you do, you can still be friends :D
You Jus play hard to get and flip the script...simple!





works 100%...or she might jus be some loveless chick on a power trip
She's playing with you either consciously or unconsciously. Either way, you are suffering.





You have to distance yourself from her. Don't call her, take some time 'off' from her and regain your balance. She'll either come running to you or the whole thing will fade even further.





Either way it's better than this.
Women play hard to get, because they are always wanting to be assured of your feelings for her. It's an inner-need they feel, just like you feel the need to provide for her by paying for dinner and showing you are strong.





With women, you need to listen to her emotions more than her words, however you are not hearing her feelings. Check this out. When she told you she would rather have you as a friend forever then to lose you over a breakup and she's scared you would never talk to her again, she's giving you a BIG red warning sign of what is going on within her mind. It's all at the end of that sentence, she was scared to lose you over a breakup and never talk to her again. You thought she wanted to just be friends when what she wanted most was assurance that everything is OK.





However you broke up with her at this point. You didn't understand her need for assurance. So OF COURSE, she comes back and tells you that she's been thinking how it would be if you were her boyfriend. You didn't understand it, so she's trying to win you back because you made a goof. She knows she has you.





And then she runs away? It's because she wants you to CHASE her. She runs, because she wants you to tell her you want her. She can't ASK you this, because then you won't mean it. However she comes back to let you know, because she sends you a message that says she misses you. Once again, she wants assurance that you have feelings for her. When she runs, chase after her and hug her. Let her know it's all OK.





Not all women take this need for assurance to this degree. Some will have it less and others will have it more. Just know this need for assurance ALWAYS exists, because it will help you with ANY relationship you have.

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