What are some psychological ways of attracting men aside from physical appearence?

Some examples I can think of are





a) Arousing his competitive instinct


b) Giving him an opportunity to protect you?


c) Allowing him to feel dominant?


d) Being honest?


e) Having a wild, and exotic nature?


f) Being mysterious?


g) Commanding respect?


h) Being clean, and tidy


i) Being pure


j) Avoiding confrontation and conflict


k) Having a tremondous amount of self-respect


l) Letting your relationship with him or friendship with him be conditional at all times based on how he acts and how he treats you


m) Playing hard to getWhat are some psychological ways of attracting men aside from physical appearence?
Heh, you're on the right track. You've obviously done some major thinking on this topic. These guidelines are true. My input is as follows:





1) You must always CLEARLY demonstrate your interest on a guy using NON-verbal ways. I insist on CLEARLY and NON-verbal. Do NOT tell him directly and do not start paying him an excessive amount of compliments.


2) There's no substitute for physical appearance when it comes to guys. I'm sorry to say this. I really am. Guys are visual creatures and have a really hard time staying with a girl that do not find attractive.


3) There is a fine line that separates playing hard to get and being a s***t. No matter what the media say, most guys will never consider doing anything serious with a former or current ';easy'; girl. If that label sticks on you then it stays for life. On the other hand, if you play ';too'; hard to get then you risk appearing disinterested.


4) If you believe in staying pure until marriage then do it. But keep in mind that a virgin guy is considered roadkill in the US. (I know, i'm a virgin) Therefore your chances of finding a virgin guy are rather slim.


5) You can't be ';wild and ';exotic'; and and ';ice queen';. Be yourself BUT if you have a personality characteristic that is a major turnoff for guys then change it.


6) Avoiding confrontation should not be your first priority. Don't be a doormat, EVER.


7) Don't bend over backwards for guys. Search for a secure relationship with a person that has a lot in common with you. Don't settle.What are some psychological ways of attracting men aside from physical appearence?
You're over-thinking it.


Let him know you're interested, be friendly, say ';hi';.