Do i play hard to get?

I posted a question some few days ago about my husband not interested in sex. As usual i have always told him the way i feel, how frustrated and rejected i feel when he is uninterested in making love to me. With the wonderful answers i received from some of you i became so relaxed and i knew i wasn't alone. I decided to not talk about it again and just let everything take its course. Yesterday he came to bed and wanted to have sex but i said i wasn't in the mood. But the truth is i felt like he is doing it to keep me happy or worst cheat on him with another man. Now, do i keep giving him excuses for a while so that he really wants me or just go for it and keep having the feeling that its to make me happy or not to cheat on him? Please help.Do i play hard to get?
be very careful dear. i guess deep down you know when is the right time...keep him excited and do it at the right time may help?Do i play hard to get?
When my man is being a dumpy *** I make him give it to me either by seduction or demands... Deep inside I'm kind of insecure so I know how that can be... but you know nothing should ever get in the way of your satisfaction.
Playing a game is NEVER the right answer since you never know who will break the rules of the game.





Once the lines of communication are open, then its time to be REAL and really communicate what each of you are thinking. ';Not interested in sex'; isn't really a state of affairs. All humans are sexual creatures to one extent or another so you should have been asking ';why'; and what you were both doing to have led to that. Now it seems you're trying to get even rather than solve the problem. No one ';makes'; you happy, you're in control of your own emotions so you should help each other by giving each other what you really want, or move on.





If you're a cheat, that's easy.....you would have proved that he would be well rid of you.
keep it up but don't go too far and piss him off
cheat on him - you wanna end your mariage, right??
Play with him. If he tries to, push him, smile, and say, ';Make me.'; or something. He may really get into it.
If you want it, go for it! Get yours, otherwise you would be tempted to cheat on him. That could'nt be me b'cuz i'd want it every night!
It seems like you're playing a game and none of this sounds like the basis of a good relationship. I think you need to get to the root of the problem why he's gone off sex. If you think your relationship's worth it counselling might help.
slap his *** and ride him like a pony...but seriously tease for a bit, but not too long.
Why not spice things up a bit! Doing the same old thing all the time can become a bit manogamous after a while! Why not try to spice things up rather than play hard to get? Try texting him on the way home asking him where he is cause ur hor**? It really works! He will rush home to you! Or send him sexy photos of you while at work with sexy little emails to go! Plan a romantic evening with finger foods that u have to feed to eachother! Anything that can go to ur mouth is good! try different positions etc... The thing is if u play too hard to get things will just get worse! Trust me on this one!
Cheat on him dear