Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Do men like it when a woman plays hard to get?

Cos this is my new tactic, I am sick of chasing men after being with them a few weeks. Now decided to do little contact in between seeing the man I am seeing as he doesnt contact me much.





Plus I am a busy person. I'd like to find out if he really does care for me.





He's not one to text, it's one liners - he hates technology and has the oldest phone known to man!





And I'm quite shy to ring. But when we get together conversation and things flow very well and we always enjoy each other's company.





How can I play hard to get ? (treat him mean to keep him keen)?Do men like it when a woman plays hard to get?
dont play hard to get


playing games never help


they can muck up a perfectly good relationshipDo men like it when a woman plays hard to get?
You don't.





MEN DISLIKE CHASING.





Why do you think men let women chase them? Because it shows interest...





If you make him chase after you, and you play hard to get, we perceive that as you aren't interested...





Which is why you make it clear with interest, but you can hang out like a day, he calls you up, asks if you want to chill, and you can say you're busy. Then he'll try to take as you got something going on, and you'll try to figure it out.
No. If a woman acts like she's not interested, the guy will assume she's not interested.





Quit playing games, and be upfront with the guy. If you want to call him, call him. If you like him, tell him you like him. If he doesn't seem interested, he probably isn't interested. It really is that easy. Men are straightforward and reasonably transparent creatures.





One final word of advice; don't be too clingy. Men like to have a bit of time and space to themselves. That's probably the problem you've had in the past.
Men don't generally like women who play hard to get, that is a women's cliche I don't like that and neighter any other male friend I know likes that. We generally say bye bye and don't chase after women. Just be yourself AND DON'T CHASE AFTER MEN exactly how we don't need to chase women, we will find each other don't worry... the more you try on this is the more you fail.
I wouldn't say the majority of us enjoy it, although there is sometimes a thrill in the chase if we're really intrigued by the girl. Even though we may not like it, I think it can work as long as the girl's intentions aren't transparent.





So my advice is, be subtle about it :)
men like it when womens play hard to get. its flirty and they get crazy cause they want to kno more about you. If you wanna kno how to flirt and play hard to get, go to wikihow or ehow!
i dont like women who play hard to get..its a waste of time..if u like somebody take the intiative..if u constantly play hard to get the guy will think u are not interested and will move on to somebody else..so in the end it could come back bite u on the butt. nobody wants to be treated mean.
theres a VERY thin line between playing hard to get and just pissing us off.





If i ever think that someones taking the piss i just cut ties straight away.





give them a taste of their own medicine but they aint getting what they ';think'; they want from me.
Men like it when you don't play hard to get because then they think you don't like them.Trust me i Had experience.If you play hard to get,you wont have a man.they like not playin hard to get.
It really depends...with player type guys do a little of both.





like say hot things and then play hard to get...it drives them crazy!!!





But with a most shy person just be nice and mature and they will grow onto you quick.
I thought the same way about women a while back. My advice is that it is a hard game to play especially if you like the person. just be you. If they don't dig you. loss them.
whats wrong with you boys don't like that, it just confuses us and gets us mad and chase after another girl. Stupid don't do that when a guy likes you he will like because you are not doing head games.
lol we cannot stand it!








please answer my question


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No Way. i'd have nothing to do with you. when you play hard to get.
The only thing playing hard to get does is piss people off and make the players seem immature. Grow up and be an adult.
No it's annoying.
My guy friends have said that it's discouraging. It doesn't work like in the movies.
Nahh I think it's rather dumb
no its annoying
let me awsner that NO! im 11 and NO


river :o)
no we like it when you give out straight away
You don't have to treat him mean to play hard to get. Every guy is different. Some guys love it, some guys hate it. In my humble opinion, finding the middle ground is key. If you've dated him a few weeks, you hopefully know enough to know if he's old-fashioned or not. That he has a old phone may be a clue! Don't be afraid to call him, but if he doesn't answer and doesn't call back right away, don't call him repeatedly. Don't leave a million voice mails. Don't email him. Just play it cool. When you're together have fun and don't obsess if he says he will call you tomorrow and doesn't. They're guys, sometimes they really do forget. You're a woman- you will know deep down whether or not he's losing interest. Like I said, all men are different, but generally they don't like clingy. They don't mind phone calls, but they hate being smothered. Find the balance.

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