Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Should i give this guy i work with my number or still play hard to get?

he is another race and i am not against interracial dating? he will be working in another department then i do. and he keeps asking for my number and i am playing hard to get. he just told me he was going up to OK and was wander if my days off were the same as his which are Friday and Saturday but i had today and Friday off he was going up there tonight when he got off i never told him what days off where. my question is how long do you play hard to get and should i give him my number he seems like a real decent and cute man. what makes me hesitate is he already asked me to go with him on a trip should this worry me? or am i making to big a deal out of it since i haven't been in the dating world for 2 years. also i broke up with my ex-fiancee about 5 months agoShould i give this guy i work with my number or still play hard to get?
either go with him or give him your number





your playing hard to get is smart it weeds out the as$holes sometimes if you go about it the right way..





He asked you to go on a trip should your be worried? uhh have you ever got a creepy vibe from him? if no then go and have fun just let someone know where you are going and **** you never know with these psychos out there





let yourself goShould i give this guy i work with my number or still play hard to get?
Seems this is too much too soon. See him casually at some place. Get to know him in the real sense. Seems to me you very little about him and need to find out more info.
Give him a chance, but get out fast if he turns out to be a psycho. You never know when you might meet a really nice guy.
well just give him ur number, go hang out casually with him, but don't go on the trip. that's a lil scary to ask a girl you haven't hung out with to go on a trip with you. see how he acts when he actually has your number and has hung out with you. then decide how u feel about things.
Remeber dont play hard to get too long he will give up.
if u like him. and dun mind him wooing u..then giv him ur no. else reject him.
You've just gotten out of a relationship and you may just not be ready to jump into anything serious right away. Thats fine but explain this too him and stop playing games. Thats exactly what playing hard to get is ....a game that men don't like and its childish. If you like him then give him your number and tell him that you would love to get to know him better but you're trying to get over a recent breakup and you want to take it slow. If he's interested in you then he'll respect that and wait. Too many people try to rely on games to trap people and play with their emotions but communication and honesty is the best way to proceed in a relationship or friendship. Women hate men that play games, so don't play them with men and watch and see how much respect you'll recieve in the long run.
Why play games? Just be honest and tell him the truth. If you are interested in him and he in you; go for it. Give him your number go on a date or two and see if you still find him interesting. I don't know that I would go immediately on a trip with him; that seems a little foolish considering you don't know him very well. Let him take his trip and then come back and go out. You cannot judge a man's character by his outward appearance only; looking cute and decent could end up being something totally different. Get to know him and see if he is worth investing time with. Good luck.
dating people at work is a big mistake. even though your in different depts. those rumors spread fast and if you break up and he is bitter then he will really spread bad rumors.





its not worth it!
makin a big deal out of it..if you're ready to be out there then go ahead and give the dude your number....don't think so much..have some fun...good luck....
Give it to him, then let him hit that. Guys love easy girls.
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