Am I being played?

I was in a situation where I had to pick b/w 2 men. I ended up picking the wrong one so I now I am back with only 1 man. He is playing hard to get, which is confusing me because of an e-mail he sent me..So am i being played. Here are parts of the e-mai





';I don't know why I was so distant at times and stand offish. Like you said I am very observant and that is how I observe, by not saying much and kind of shutting down. How I was had no effect on how I felt towards you or the things you were doing. You were doing everything so right it was scary.';


';I said last night I wanted to know what it felt like 2 be chased for once, and I am sorry for making you chase me or so long. I am sorry that i didn't realize what was in front of me.';


';This I promise you, I am ready for our relationship to hit the next gear and not look back. There is a bright future for us. I am certain of that, and I am certain that I can love you like no other can.';





So what is the problem? Why is he hard to get?Am I being played?
Guys generally play hard to get because they want to be sure what they are doing is the right thing and just by what he has said in a partial e-mail to you signfies that he wants to be with you but does not want to go fast and wants to get to know you better and try to stay on top of things, It sounds as if he is being sincere and it is pretty clear, but you have to determine for youself if you are being played, If you think that you are being played then don't start a relationship with this guy and go your seperate ways. Maybe you should talk to him a little more so you have a better idea about the way that things are going and make better judgements.Am I being played?
he is probably scared and don't know what to do, our he loves you so much and dont want to mess it up to me he sounds so lovable
I think he wants you, for you know ... anyway I think this has Stradivarius written all over it.
I don't see a problem here. Doesn't sound to me like he is playing hard to get anymore...
Umm, he's said at the end of it that he's ready to have a relationship with you....